The #1 Skill you Need to Change Your Life

I’m calling this style of writing DJ fiction, because I feel it’s just like a DJ spinning records.  Everything is true, but I mashed together a lot of different eras of my life to create this hybrid form of experience that can be used to help change your life. 

My boss called me into his office.  I didn’t know if I was going to get fired. I had made a huge mistake the week before and tried to cover it up.  But my boss found out on a Friday, and I beat myself up all weekend afraid of what was going to happen next.

I walked into his office.  I tried to avoid eye contact.  He pointed at a chair across from his desk and said, “Sit down.  I need to talk to you about your future here.”

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Average Days Stink! How to Turn Your Time into a Fun Adventure

Stepping out with faith into the unknown, and going on an adventure outside of your comfort zone, is one of the most overlooked steps on the stairway to build wealth.

I am 35 years old, and my wife is 27. When we started dating, we had some bad debt: a school and car loan totaling in the low five-figure range.  That was our first goal as a dating couple: working together to get debt-free.  It took us about a year of sacrificing.  We went at each day with the mentality that even a McDonald’s Egg-McMuffin was a big purchase, and eventually our last debt payment was made, and we were free from debt.

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How Do You Grow Happiness?

The only thing we need to live a fulfilling life is happiness and joy. The rest is just objects and stuff. Therefore, the sum of our investments, efforts, and possessions should lead us to a life of happiness.  That should be the aim and purpose of being wealthy and building wealth.

A couple of weekends ago, my wife and I made the mistake of spending an entire weekend being lazy. We laid around home in bed watching YouTube and aimlessly scrolling through social media.  We thought the laziness would be a refreshing recharge to our batteries after a busy week, but we were majorly wrong.

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